Pay-offs for NOT Creating Your Desired Reality – Pay-off #2 – Blame

Pay-off #2 Blame

Why would we not want to create a successful reality? Why would we not want success, happiness, peace, fulfillment, and love?

Instead of success and happiness, we are seduced by pain and suffering. In our society, we have a belief, “No pain, no gain.” Usually we don’t change until our backs are against the wall, until we’ve reached “rock bottom,” when change becomes a must.

There are “pay-offs” for not creating a successful, prosperous, fulfilling, joyful reality. Usually we have one or two that is our go-to pay-off.

Families have a pay-off that run in the families that might also play out in our lives as well. Might not be our first go-to pay-off but pops up every now and then.

The seven pay-offs are:
Pay-off #1 – Avoidance
Pay-off #2 – Blame
Pay-off #3 – Self-pity
Pay-off #4 – Guarantee
Pay-off #5 – Self-righteous
Pay-off #6 – Self-importance
Pay-off #7 – Clinging to the past

Pay-off #2 – Blame – for Not Creating Our Reality

When you blame others, you give up your power to change.
Dr. Robert Anthony

You know the kind…they are always pointing the finger of blame at someone or something else other than themselves. It is never their fault. Never! The words “accountable” and “responsible” are not even in their vocabulary.

How many times have you heard, “I am the way I am because of my screwed up parents.” “It’s your fault! Not mine.” “I thought you took care of it.” “My boss treats me as if I am worthless.” “My spouse does not want me to do that.”

Pay-off #2 – Blame…We blame others for our failures. It is easier to blame others than to take responsibility, to take an honest look at ourselves. There is always someone else or God/Goddess that can be blamed. It is always someone else’s fault.

Victim. Hopeless. Helplessness. Powerless. Lack of self esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance. Seemingly, without any options. Someone else has the power and control. Someone else is in control of them and their life. Refusal to take responsibility. Not willing to be accountable. Unreliable. Stuck in the denial. EFT can help.

EFT Tapping Statements for Pay-off #2 – Blame:
* I don’t take responsible for my life.
* I won’t admit to mistakes I make.
* I am powerless to change my life.
* I am without options in my life.
* Accountable is not in my vocabulary.

© Tessa Cason, 2021.

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